The "perfect" friends. |
The formation of cliques can come in many forms, like mention earlier the easiest way will be either your school or work place and some will be due to common interest and met at night spot or even the more geeky ones like forums/twitter or even facebook these days.
Although I look like I am a social butterfly who will flies around different social groups, I do really care about my close friends and always like the feeling of bringing friends together and hope that they will be one big group of common friends but sad to say it is very hard to achieve. For the simplest reason is that we are humans and we have difference in everyone. I am not talking about ironing out the differences but it's more like how do we compromise as well as is it worth the compromise. We have different interests, we have different daily happenings, we have different ideas, we have different experience and even different sense of humor but that is exactly what makes a group interesting! We do not see 5 barney(ies) hanging out and neither do we see 5 Joey(ies) eating together at the dinner table, no?
Not to make myself sound like an Anime character but friendship and human relationship is one thing i really treasure and as much as possible I want all my friends to move on together and have a good time every time we gather.
I use to be in so many different cliques that I can remember, from primary school to current days. What happened between all of us that drifted us apart? Did we not maintain our "close" relationship or did we just got "too busy" with life? Is it true that there are only so many friends one can keep? How many good/close friends can one keep? People grow up, people move on and people's interest changed. Is that what happened?
I suppose one person can't win it all?
I am not saying that I do not have good friends now, I still have my buddies who will meet me every now and than and you guys know who you are.(I suppose you guys don't even read my blog. -.- I sounded just like Barney.)
This post sounded emo-ish at this point of time which was totally not part of the plan. I was simply planning to talk about how I love to have a close group of friends and that's about it.
All I wish is to have a good group of friends where we know each other so well and we just talk and do everything together. Me, and you and our booth.
Vacancy up for grabs. |
Mr.Smith, quality > quantity?
1 comments:
I also love HIMYM's friendship :) Now I just need to find a regular spot and sit at that booth often with those close friends. :D
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