Photodiary - Influencer Seth in the making.

This is the 3rd and last part of our family trip which happened last December. I promise. lol.

If you have the habit of following influencers on Instagram, you would noticed that Hong Kong is actually a rather Instagrammable place. Given my line of work and my "fake life" on Instagram, I'm not going to give it a miss this time.

Since I'm not visiting Hong Kong with some Instagram Babes, my son would be my subject. He ain't exactly easy to shoot these days. We really had to play with him and get him into the mood. I'm actually kinda happy with these pictures myself.

- Okay bye -

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Life's a beach at Bali.

La Plancha Bali is one of the must visit.

I struggle a little bit every time when someone asks me about what kind of trips do I enjoy. I mean New York City is one of my favourite cities on earth. It's fast pace, it's full of buildings, and the people are crazy. My kind of crazy.

Well on the other hand, some of my best trips include my honeymoon at Maldives with the wife, Boracay, Koh Samui, Phuket, and of course Bali. The kind of beach life where all I do is eat, drink, party, beach, repeat. (And look at girls in Bikinis) We do not need to stress over the touristy must-visits.


LA? Or Bali?

Don't get me wrong. I mean I love touristy spots as well because most of them make very good Instagram content.

 Heaven's Gate.


Wanagiri Hill and Swing.

This time round my stay was actually at FURAMAXCLUSIVE OCEAN BEACH, SEMINYAK! It's walking distance to some of the shopping as well as beach pubs but at the same time it's not right in the middle of everything, if you get what I mean. It's convenient and at the same time quiet and peaceful for those of you who wish to get a break from the parties or your city life.



Yes, I woke up to this view everyday and now I regret that I'm back. LOL.

And the suite?



It's so huge that I wanted to throw a party right there and then!

And at FuramaXclusive Ocean Beach, there are actually two different places where you can enjoy your food and also some good old Shisha, (sheesha) or some known it as Hookah. There is a package at The barrel (which is also a sports bar where you can sing KTV LOL) where you can get a set of a Shisha, a pizza (enough for 2) and a drink at only $16 SGD? CHEAPPPP! And yup, we are talking about traditional balinese food!




This trip was pretty much a last minute decisions with very little planning but we managed to wing it. Here are some information for you:

Hotel 

FURAMAXCLUSIVE OCEAN BEACH, SEMINYAK, BALI
JI Arjuna 88X Legian, Kuta, Bali 80361 Indonesia

Tel (62) 361 737 400
Fax (62) 361 737 408
Email fxoceanbeach@furama.com

Website https://www.furama.com/xclusive/oceanbeach/

Transport (He is also the same guy who actually introduces us which are some of the nice places to go.)

Mr. Agung Bagus

Whatsapp: +62 819 9907 1427

And in case you were here to look for some pictures of girls, here's my friend Ruth. LOL 

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#SethAsks - What is volunteerism?

“Papa, where are you going? You must work today?”

Although Seth still doesn’t know his days accurately yet he do know that on certain days I shouldn’t be working because both him and the wife will be at home instead of being in school.

“No Seth, I’m going to an event. Papa volunteers on an ad-hoc basis with NTUC.”

Many parents like to simplify answers to their children but not me. I do not believe in the whole “you will get it when you grow up” thing. I believe that as long as we make an effort to explain ourselves, your child will eventually get it.

“Can I go with you? Event. Got popcorn?”

I was kinda surprise that he actually remembered Project Refresh which I brought him along previously. Or rather the popcorn he ate.

“No Seth, Papa is going to be busy at the event.”

“Why? What you do? Why?”

Like every kid has went through, my son is currently in the “WHY, WHERE, WHAT, WHO,” stage. He is very curious about everything.

Although I did say that I love to explain things to him, I was in a bit of a hurry because I spent the whole of my morning, despite waking up early playing with my newly purchased Nintendo Switch. I know, I can mix up my priorities every now and then. So I told him I would explain it to him when I get back and show him some pictures. (Which I totally thought he would have forgotten by then but who knows this kid has a memory of a woman. LOL.)

I started asking myself when I was driving to “Pasar Fiesta”, an event by Young NTUC U Heart (U Heart), in collaboration with OrangeAid, NTUC Income’s community development and involvement arm. “Pasar Fiesta” is a pop-up supermarket, that is aimed at reaching out to and helping under-privileged Yio Chu Kang residents offset their monthly expenditure.

How do I explain volunteerism to a 3 years old?

Do I just tell him that it is an act of kindness to help others? Wouldn’t that be a little too brief and lacks a bit of depth since helping someone crossing the road also falls under that category of act of kindness but I wouldn’t really call it volunteerism.

What about me just flipping through the dictionary and share with him the meaning of it? That can be pretty straightforward and easy. Then I asked myself, what is volunteerism to volunteers and the bigger question of “WHY”.

I’m a through and through cynic when it comes to things like these especially after reading articles online about the inconvenience brought by voluntourism. If you are unfamiliar with that term, you can probably guess that it just means volunteerism and tourism. It is something where people pays money to go to the less fortunate countries and “help out”. While they were there, they ain’t exactly into helping people but more for their own personal gains such as tax evasion, glorifying themselves by taking loads of pictures of them pretending to build a school which the villagers might have to tear down the wall after the event due to poor workmanship, and even as basic as wanting to gain some positive karma for themselves.

Me? I would not exactly call myself a noble person or even a selfless person till a certain extent. Truth is I just got associated to these events because of my work and more often than not I wouldn’t say no when I get “jio-ed” by the other volunteers. I tag-along mostly because my friends needed help and I am the “why not” kind of guy.

Upon reaching the event, I was telling my friends about what happened and the convo between me and my son. Ya, that’s pretty much me now, one of those annoying parents who is always talking about their child like their prize possession. So they actually introduced me to these two volunteers who have been with U Heart for years.

“Ask them ask them, they are very friendly and you probably can get some answers for your son or write on your blog or else you always no updates.”

You see, people like to encourage me to write things on my blog which I appreciates from time to time but it’s never about not having a story to tell, it’s really more about how lazy I am sometimes LOL. Hopefully I can inspire some of you guys to give back to the society. That’s being a positive influencer right? So I guess I shall try to use my influence in a more positive way instead of just telling you where to eat and get fat like I did. LOL.

“Taking Care of Others.”

Thuvinder is the general secretary of Union of Telecoms Employee of Singapore or better known as UTES. He first started being part of the union in 2006 when they were looking for volunteers to be a union leader.

What is his motivation behind volunteering?

I mean if you did not put your primary school education to a waste, you would have figured out that he has been a volunteer for 12 years. 12 years is no joke seriously. If you had a kid 12 yrs ago, you would be at the edge of your seat this year because he is going to take his PSLE! (For context lah.)

From my short chat with him I can tell that he is a very passionate and big man. (no pun intended). His motivation is as simple as seeing the smile on others’ face. It’s that simple.

So what is volunteerism to him?

“Volunteerism is about taking care of others. Taking care of workers in a Union Context.”

“It’s all heart.”

Nurhafizah is an exco with UTES and has been a volunteer for around 5 years. What started off as a challenge and self-improvement for her introverted self later became something more rewarding than she expected.

The social element of volunteering with UTES is something she finds really rewarding. It helps her to be more confident, give back to the society, and it’s something different from “just work”. It gives her an extra sense of purpose.

So what is volunteerism to her?

“It’s all heart. It’s meaningful work.”

Pasar Fiesta

So what happened at the event?

Approximately 250 volunteers from the unions, grassroots and Institute of Technical Education (ITE) participated in this initiative serving a variety of functions, these include helping to man stalls and serving as befrienders to the residents. This event touched over 1,700 underprivileged families. Beneficiaries from each household would be provided a trolley bag to “shop” (for free!) at Pasar Fiesta that was held across five distribution sites within Yio Chu Kang. They received some standard items such as a tin of Milo, a can of Tulip Chicken Luncheon Meat, a packet of Myojo Chicken Abalone Bowl Noodles and a tin of Julie's Assorted Biscuits. On top of these items, they would also get to “shop” for other canned foods, beverages and snacks.

Young NTUC’s learning partners – NTUC health, FindJobs, NTUC LearningHub, NTUC Membership and Growthbeans – were also present to meet residents and help them understand how they can improve their employability as well as source for new employment.

After a year of attending various voluntary work with NTUC, I must say that there is something for everyone. It’s not always about painting houses, or career guiding, or even donating money, there are a lot more than that. One can choose to challenge oneself and do something one is uncomfortable with to grow or simply do what you are best at and have fun during the process!

So what is volunteerism to me? What did I tell Seth at the end of the day?

 

“Volunteerism is… Love.”

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Protips - Hong Kong Disneyland with Baby Seth.

I've been to Hong Kong Disneyland multiple times over the years. Once with colleagues, another with the wife while we were dating some ten years ago, once with girlboss, but this is the very first time I've visited with a child. More specifically, my very own child.



The experience was really different. I mean we definitely had more fun despite not being able to take as many rides. As cliche as it sounds, seeing the smile on my son's face made me really really happy.



He had snacks, watch live performances, had more snacks, got some toys (some can be an understatement when the father is a big toy fanatic), had more snacks, and he got his favourite bubble gun! It has been over a month since our return and he is still trying his luck with, "Papa, we go Hong Kong Disney again? I can eat popcorn. See Mickey Mouse. Take Aeroplane."


 He really really wanted that.



I mean we had fun for sure but it's not that easy traveling with a child after all. So I'm gonna share some tips. You are welcome.

1. Disney Hotel 



Hong Kong Disneyland is relatively smaller as compared to its counterparts but a child's stamina is still relatively limited when it comes to them walking around the park. We did considered quite a bit before making this decision because it's not exactly cheap. Well, on hindsight we have no regrets. With the hotel located so near to the park, we actually managed to go back for a break in the middle of the day just to make sure lil Seth doesn't get tired out and grouchy before all the parades.

2. Two days pass 



The park might seems small to you when you are 1.7m tall (average height lah, I'm 1.8m pls.) but it's not exactly the case for the 2yrs old. The walk seems longer, meal time was longer, plus every little details seem really cool to him and we had to stop at almost every corner for him to check it out. Not to forget, the nap we Seth took. 1 day just seems way too short to complete the park. This too was a good call. Well done Wife.

3. Disneyland Stroller Rental 



"Should we bring our own stroller to Hong Kong?" 

"Nah, I don't think so. Hong Kong ain't exactly stroller friendly." 

"What about Disneyland?"

"I think we can get a rental at a pretty decent price over at Disneyland." 

Once again, thanks to the wife's strange observation skill which she usually lacks in day-to-day life, we managed to score a stroller for Seth. I mean I was there for 3 other times but I've never noticed things like this. I mean why would I since I've never needed one right?

It's not like we put him in all the time but it is really good for him to have an option between taking a seat or having the freedom of running around the park. It's a lot easier for us as well so we do not need to be carrying him around all the time.

And nope, he doesn't want to be tula-ed around anymore. He said, and I quote, "Papa, Tula is for babies. I'm a big boy now." #okaycan

4. Send Help



It's always good to have an extra pair of hand. Friends, family, or anyone. I take the last one back, don't try anyone, strangers overseas is not exactly ideal. Thanks to these two for tagging along. They sure did help us a lot throughout the trip especially with taking care of Seth. Seth had so much fun with these two he literally cried the moment we part ways after the trip at Changi airport.

The trip to disneyland was a lot more enjoyable than I imagined. I was having doubts considering the fact that I've been to disneyland so many times but I'm really glad my wife convinced me to make this trip.

Even the usually uptight wife let her hair down and had much fun!



Seth, "We go back to Hong Kong okay? Can we go Hong Kong tomorrow?" 

Me, "No." 

Seth, "Why?" 

Me, "Because I need to work." 

Seth, "Why?" 

Me, "Because I need to earn money." 

Seth, "So we can go Hong Kong again?" 

Me, "Ya." 

Seth, "So we go Hong Kong tomorrow?" 

Me, "..." 

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Traveling in Hong Kong - OZO Wesley Hong Kong

"Hong Kong will always be special." 

It was the time of the year again where I visit Hong Kong. This is probably my 3rd trip in the last 4 years. I know it's not exactly a lot considering some people might be flying there every week for work. But hey, I love Hong Kong and nothing is gonna change that. There are always more than 1 reason to be in Hong Kong and the reason this time round; family holiday.


The little one looking very satisfied with the hotel breakfast provided over at Ozo Wesley Hong Kong.



Located on Hong Kong Island and near Admiralty metro station, OZO makes it really easy for us to travel around Hong Kong. It's just a few MTR and Tramways stations away from shopping heaven like Times Square.



If you are a big fan of Instagram and taking OOTD like myself, there are plenty of nook and cranny that you can take a good OOTD!



At OZO, everything they do is designed to offer a great sleep experience for smart, savvy travellers on the go. It’s all about quality, not quantity. That’s why they invest in quality sleep amenities so we can get a great night’s rest. From their signature beds, noise-free rooms to blackout curtains.


The little one enjoying the bed. He just KO at the end of each day without much hassle, which is usually a worry for many parents when traveling. "What if my child cannot get use to the hotel's bed?" 

And just in case you don't have time to travel around and look for local food, Ozo's breakfast got you covered! After all, breakfast is the most important meal of the day right! We have to sleep and eat well before we explore Hong Kong.



We really had a good time at Ozo Wesley Hong Kong. On top of all that I've mentioned so far, I really appreciate the good service provided by the team over at Ozo Wesley Hong Kong. I would definitely introduce this hotel if you are looking for a hotel to stay over at Hong Kong.

I would be sharing more about our trip at Disney with lil Seth, so stay tuned!



More Details:

Address: 22 Hennessy Rd, Wan Chai, Hong Kong
Website: ozohotels.com
Telephone: +852 2292 3000

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