Probably one of the worst title ever that I came out with for my post. It could be a better one if I went with " How to make friends" but considering the fact that I can't really summarize how to make friend I will just stick to a simple review on the "be friend friend" code.
*I choose the Be friend friend code instead of be friend code to kinda have the Da vin ci code feeling.. geddit ? Be Friend Friend and Da Vin Ci ? blah.. nvm...
Ah Dum always say that I am like a social butterfly where I make friends all over but I never really land myself with a group of very close friends which I think I can't deny it regardless of how I look at it. And moreover I do not think I want to deny the fact too.
It's not that I do not like to have bff or bestie kinda thing but I felt that everytime when friends get a lil too close conflict starts to arise due to some simple reason like " I care for u" or even things like "We are BFF rite? We must do everything together" or or or or things like " We are a clique and why ain't I invited to this certain parteh" that kinda shit and I'm seriously not a fan of this kinda domestic issues.
For me friends are people who are there for me be it physically or mentally when I need them and I will be there if they need me too. Friends are people who believe in you, respect you and although we do not hang out that much we know that we mean something to each other and some time we look up in the sky gazing at the same star. I appreciate everything that all my friends have done for me thus far. - True Story.
Everyone has their own "Be Friend Friend code", like I mention earlier some dude just need the bff feel and has to be like Siamese twins in order to be best bud but for me I choose to take things with a pinch of salt.
On top of what being said, I always believe that there are actions or things we do not like about our friend one way or the other, it's impossible for a friend to be perfect. Agree? Seriously if there can be a perfect friend I will probably fall in love and end up sleeping on my bed. ( applies to female friens ONLY). I do not expect all my friends to be like me and of course not all my friends to like me. ( I'm not that likable to begin with. True Story. )
Bottom line of my "Be Friend Friend Code" : Don't be too hard on yourself and always remember that there are difference in everyone.
That's my take, what's yours ?
P.S " Friends are like ur minions too, the drinking minion, the parteh minion, the study minion, the shopping minion and even the supper minion.. basically different people who does different things with you.
"And now ladies and gentlemen, that's the ugly truth"
Copyright ©
Smithankyou - Lifestyle and Travel Photo Blog. | Powered by Blogger
Design by Flythemes | Blogger Theme by NewBloggerThemes.com
0 comments:
Post a Comment