We all want fairy tales but do we need them ?

Boy meets Girl and Girl loves boy but ended up with only two types of ending.

a) Badly Never After
b) Happily Ever After

That sounds like math at it's simplest form but I am sure it's more than just that during the process. We battle, we get hurt, we sacrifice, we fight, we protect, we cried, we cheer, we celebrated, we win some and we lost some. What are we fighting for? In search for the dream relationship? To find happiness or companionship ? Someone who loves you more or someone whom you love more?

Are love and relationship always connected?

When we were in our teenage years, after being affected by fairy tales and that lousy 29inch CRT media box at home, we always dream about having a beautiful love life. The prince will march in on his white horse or driving in his red ferrari for now for the ladies while the male population will always find this long hair angel looking girl with a glow to crash into his life.

There will be competition, villain, evil step mother or what not in btw to spice up the whole thing and the couple will live happily ever after. That sounds really really cool. But what's next? You do realize we always milk a lot of franchise like Toy story 3, Die hard 4, Rocky 5 but there dun seems to be Cinderella 2 or Sleeping Beauty 3 cause there is nothing left after happily ever after isn't it?

Is that why we always compare marriage as "death bed" cause happily ever after means ZERO action? So do you still want fairy tales?

Coming back to reality, how many of us CAN get fairy tales? how many of us NEED fairy tales? I am sure my parents did not have a fairy tale story but look at them now. Dad is sick and mom taking care of him and so loving and all and they have be together like for 40 yrs to come?

What is my point? My point is, are the people of today searching for the wrong things? We are searching for the "chemistry", the "one", the financial backup, the eye candy or what not but are those the things we need in life when it comes to a life partner?

Then we question the yesterday years, are you guys holding on to the wrong things? Just because your parents want the r/s ? just because u guys had kids? just because you wanted your PR ? or just because that guy is rich ?

Everyone has different wants and need, so it's not quite possible for me to put both of them onto a same scale and rate them. I am not too sure if it can be done but well at least I do not think I am the person who can cause only you can decide you happiness and future. I think love and relationship is for everyone and anyone but the first rule of it is to love yourself and think about what you really want.

From me to you, Signing off with one of the all time favorite love song of mine

- A Whole New World





"And now ladies and gentlemen, that's the ugly truth"