The Right Of Path....

What do i mean the right of path..

i mean when in life..

what is the right of path ??

u go school..

u study..

u get a good job

u get a 9 - 5

u get married..

u give birth..

u provide..

u die..

so that is the normal right of path..

what if ur choice is to get out of the right of path ??

will it be more difficult ?

will u benefit more ??

will u be able to take it ???

i suppose yes and no ??

than again i would like to remind all.. the grass is always greener on the other side..

no.. i am not saying that we shld look forward to changes.. in fact i am saying dun be too comfortable with ur side..

and no.. neither am i encouraging pple to change.. in fact change is inevitable isn't it ??

but i suppose we must adapt to changes..

and what is hardship ? how much can one take ? and how fortunate is one ?

how do we measure ?

i dunno abt the rest..

i do not have a car..

i do not have a pay cheque of 5,000

i do not have a girl friend who looks like jessica alba

i do not have a body or face of tom cruise

i do not have a time table which allows me to slack and play golf

i do not have a degree..

but i am still very very thankful for who i am and what i have..

i have a very healthy body.. ( although abit fat )

i have a very happy family..

i have friends who are always helping out..

i have a girl friend who understand and shower me with care..

so what am i trying to say once again ?

i am saying be happy.. be glad that what u are given.. or rather in my point of view what i have work for.. what i have fight for..

i put in effort to talk to my family.. i put in effort to communicate.. i put in effort to meet up.. iput in effort to have meals together.. i put in effort to understand my friend.. i put in effort to meet up with my friend.. i put in effort to help my friends.. i put in effort to thanks my friend.. i put in effort to my girl friend.. i put in effort to show how much i care..

although effort is put in but i dun expect all this return to be something a MUST.. i must still thank them.. not taking for granted.. cause there is alot of times effort are put in but result are not shown.. but what i must re-emphasize is.. without effort.. dun even expect output..

u want money.. u work.. u work.. u have no time to play.. as easy as that..

u want freedom to run around.. u lost ur 9-5 stability..

u want a 9-5 job.. u lost ur freedom..

u wanna slim down.. u give up on unhealthy food

u wanna a better result.. u give up time and study..

at times.. we just cant get the best of both world..

but of course sometimes u do...or rather some does.. but when they do.. u be happy for them.. not angry over why u dun..

i dunno wat hit me to blog this.. i suppose it's those forums which i have been reading which causes me to have thoughts about alll these factors once again..

i see more unhappy faces around me than happy..

what is wrong ?

are pple losing focus ?

are pple just unable to feel contentment ?

are pple just simply ignorant ?

are pple simply "think too much "

are pple just unable to see thru the wall ? ( i wish i see thru clothes most of the time )

are pple just losing their happiness even b4 they found it..

i suppose our lives just get more n more complicated day by day ?

some pple have family.. but they dun like them

some pple have no family.. and they miss them..

some pple drives a car.. and hates driving it..

some pple dun have a car.. but wish to have one..

some pple wants a girl friend.. some pple just ditch theirs..

some pple do not have girlfriend.. and act like they couldn't care much.. but they are lonely..

there are so many problems around us.. can u heck it all ?

is solving the problem the solution ? are ur problems even problems in the 1st place ?

i guess it's time everyone take a step back and goes back to basic..

look at the problem as the problem itself..

if u drop ur handphone.. dun get angry.. dun worry u lost ur nude picture.. dun just blaming ur friend.. look at the problem again.. u drop ur handphone... solution ? pick it up ...

"Life is Simple... We made it Complicated..."

Mr.Smith,Happy

"我就是我行我素　我沒有風度　我只有態度　你說我太酷"