Life Changing Decisions

What is life? That was one of those topics that came out the other day during a session of beers, whiskey and cigars. Some said that it is about living your dream and blah blah blah what not motivation bs which obviously I wasn't listening to after a few drinks. (Okay, maybe it was more than a few. Was high AF.)

One of the smartest guy on earth. Not because he created Facebook but because he minimised the amount of decisions needed to be made daily by always wearing the same thing. Genius! 

To me, life is about decisions. It has been said something as small as the flutter of a butterfly's wing can ultimately cause a typhoon halfway around the world. We are the result of the decisions we make each day. Who would I be if I have studied harder during school days? What would I have become if I took the job opportunity from years ago that will send me out of Singapore? (A lot was going through my mine still despite all the alcohol. Or was it thanks to the alcohol.)

I thought that one of the biggest decisions anyone can make is getting married. As much as I am a big girl fan of snappy love poems and romantic hollywood movies, I feel that sometimes love just ain't enough in a married and it is something that nobody should just jump in because he or she got sweep head over heels.

Don't worry, I'm not getting a divorce yet or something. I think no one is as blind as her to take me in lah hor. So I better be guai guai and hang tight. HAHA. Anyway, these train of thoughts were brought to me because, a close friend of mine is actually going through a divorce and he was telling us about how messy it is and about getting a good divorce lawyer in Singapore.

He is going through so much now and it is giving him such a big headache. (Explains the boys night out) From splitting his assets to making sure everything will be taken care of at the end of the day. It was then that I realised that falling in love and getting married might not be as big as a decision to make as compared to actually getting a divorce. 

I really cannot imagine the whole process of getting a divorce lawyer in Singapore, going through the whole process of breaking things up, breaking your routine, telling your parents about it, and living your life without the other person anymore. I think there's really no good way this kinda situation can be handled and we can only try to cushion the fall that much.

Love is really like a battlefield and everyday we try to do our best to not kill each other care more about each other and keep this going. You know, happy wife happy life.