Are we ready ?

As you all should know by now that I adopted a really awesome pet cat call Ted. He spent a few days with us at the office and he have been part of the family since Monday.

Taking care of Ted is just like taking care of a new born baby. Some people say that having a pet like a cat or a dog is like having a new family member. I beg to differ cause it is not "like" but the truth is that it IS having a new family member. We take care of Ted like taking care of a new born. We change him. we talk to him, we teach him, we bath him and we need to know what he needs at different time of the day.

Thanks to Ted we also know ourself much better. In what way ? Management style. In a scenario that nothing goes wrong. Ah Dum and I will be married and we will have our kids. What kinda parents will we be? How are our parenting skills? Are we the all cool dad or the all uptight traditional ma?

I think it ain't too difficult to guess right?

I am simply the " I think Ted is fine.. just let him be, he will eat when he is hungry.. he will meow me when he needs me" All cool. Ah dum is the " Ted, where u going? dun go there.. no ted.. ted u dun do this.. ted u hungry? ted u want water? ted mummy feed u some water? "

It's fine right now since it's just a cat for now but are we ready to be parents ourselves? We are 26/25 this year, checking out the facebook (and letterbox) tells us that it's about time to get married. Wedding bell started ringing a while ago for the people around me and it never seems to stop. That brings me to the next question, if we ain't ready, how did my parents know they are ready X yrs ago when they step into parenthood much earlier without 2nd thought and actually doing fine. ( fine is base on the fact that including myself none of the 3 offspring went ashtray..unless u consider being a sexblogger a problem)

Is it true that people these days think too much for the call of action and ended up with no action at all? like the chinese saying goes "船到桥头自然直“. Should we be doing things spontaneously and we will eventually find the solution ?

hmmmm.. I'm into planning these days, not as spontaneous as I use to be. What about you ? Do you think you are ready? Are you ready to take the risk and make changes in life?