I am at the age where most of my friends should be attached, married and probably making baby in the name of
I guess it happens too often that we go to the easiest reason we choose to believe is the reason that we are single. For example: I do not have a car or I do not have a proper career. Some choose to believe it is because they are fat. I mean I am sure there are girls out there who doesn't like a poor fat guy with no career but trust me, you do not need all those things to be happily married. #ExhibitA
I am also pretty sure we've all heard about the logic about opposite attracts and we all have this one ugly friend with a model like girl friend who is richer than him. We also go to the easiest reason we can imagine to make ourselves feel better like for example "He confirm have a big dick."
Anyway here are probably some of the reasons why you are single. Of course i can't say these are the only reasons. P.S. if you are offended and thinks I am talking about you, that is probably why you are single as well.
1. You are stingy
|I'm rich bitch.|
Generosity is about how much you are willing to give. I am not saying that we have to empty our pockets to impress a girl. I am saying that generosity is from the heart. I do not need to be rich to be generous and same thing, not all rich guys are generous. Do it from the bottom of your heart and they can feel it. Don't be over calculative to divide the bill to cents just because she say "let's spilt the bill"
2. You are
There is always a time and space for jokes and there is always a different way to pull off different jokes. I mean unless you are a stand up comedian you are allowed to crack a joke about sex or racism and still earn money. Else, you better keep some of the jokes to yourself 1st before the lady is comfortable with you.
You don't go and meet a new friend and say "woah, you boobs are really nice." And when the girl got offended you go "comon lah, you wear like that I confirm will look at it. Just take the compliment". Nope. That's not how it works although those are the things I say it often enough to make people laugh but the fact is right place right time. You don't want people to remember you as the creepy one.
3. You are so sensitive and emotional
"why didn't you reply my message? did I say something wrong?"
"You look like you are bored today. Is everything okay"
"Why am i still single? I am such a nice guy!"
"I am so lonely.. I want a gf so badly"
"I think I am still single because I don't have a career and girls dont like that. right right right?"
Maybe some girls like this but to be honest I really hate this about man. Sometimes man just have to be like a man, logical and objective. Being too emotional is just way too drama.
4. You are indecisive
Where should we go for dinner? What should we do? I think woman appreciate it when you ask for opinion but they also like a man who makes decision.
5. You are too cocky
Probably a very bad image I've used here to convince you that being cocky is not cool because we all know that every girl loves Tony Stark. That is the tricky part about woman. It is never a one size fits all like I mentioned in point no.2. Right place and right time is very important. Let's take a look at these scenarios and differences between a cute guy vs ugly guy:
Cute Guy: "Omg, he is so sweet. He actually followed me home to find out where I stay and pass me the present"
Ugly Guy: "OMG! What a freak! He stalked me home!"
Cute Guy: "He suddenly kissed me in the classroom. that was so romantic!"
Ugly Guy: "OMG! HE MOLESTED ME! I AM GOING TO CALL THE POLICE!"
----------I think you guys get the drift. Of course, when you are cute you get things easier but that's not always the case. I think this cocky thing really turns off woman especially for ladies in late 20s to mid 30s where they already met a lot of guys and every guy just want to show off how rich they are and how cool they are at work. They just fail to engage in a real conversation but keeps talking about themselves. Yes, that is very impressive but that's not what a woman wants... unless you are cute. #HardTruth
Honorable Mention: You think you are too cool
Some people will call this last type of guys being choosy but I say they are delusional. Everybody wants a hot girl friend who is smart and rich at the same time good in bed but some times they forget what they have to offer. Look into the mirror and ask yourself that. If you are nothing but a baggage of everything I've mentioned above, why would someone with good qualities choose you? Before you want to be choosy maybe you should up your game a little and remember it is not about how fat your wallet is. At least not always.
It is funny how I left out things like you are a player, you are a flirt, you have commitment issue. These things that i've just mention are like deal breaker but they get you girls at the same time. Maybe not into a marriage but they get you short term relationships because at the same time we know woman love a bad boy, we know how they like to play with fire and the thought that they believe they can change a man. big big mistake of course.
Above all, I am not saying that bad boys always win in r/s. What I am saying here is that the bottomline for woman is that they need a man, not a boy who thinks he can. Then again, I am a man. What do I know about what a woman wants.
What They Want: They don't know what they want but when they see it they will know. They can have their prince charming template in the head but they do make compromises here and there if you make them believe you are "the one".
Warning: Handle with care
Here's my favourite song about nice guy. Enjoy.